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Coach 4 2day – Finding Love

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34 comments

  • February 1, 2011
    AT 9:38 AM
    Becky

    Great advice…I can apply to my business…getting into the feeling state of having my vision and really feeling it. Thanks Martha!

  • February 1, 2011
    AT 9:42 AM
    rebecca @ altared spaces

    And this is why it is a practice.

  • February 1, 2011
    AT 1:51 PM
    Diane

    Love your advice, Martha! I’ve been on both sides of the energy coin and, by far, the good energy of contentment opens doors with others in our lives. Before we know it, our lives have changed for the better!

  • February 2, 2011
    AT 2:16 PM
    Rachelino

    Martha, I find this to be true in many areas of life. For example, even though I am overworked in my current job, when interviewing for the positions that would give me some relief, I am turned off by an interview candidate’s desperate needy energy. Even though I desperately need the help, I find myself not wanting to consider these candidates, and I wonder if it is because their energy doesn’t give me the feeling that they will come in and help me. They aren’t presenting themselves as someone I want to work with (even though they very well could be). Same is true for the blustery overconfident.

  • February 4, 2011
    AT 9:13 PM
    Rachelino

    This is so funny. I as just listening to Steering by Starlight and the job candidate example comes on!

  • February 5, 2011
    AT 7:16 AM
    Charlotte Hutson-Wrenn

    so wise.

  • February 14, 2011
    AT 8:43 PM
    Aimee

    Great post, Martha. Used this advice in another area today and..POOF!..results an hour later. Damned if this doesn’t work. :) xo

  • April 7, 2011
    AT 1:16 PM
    PattyBoom

    You’re awesome Martha.

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 7:31 AM
    jess

    Wonderful advice, and personally very timely, as pertains to my health. Thanks, Martha!

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 11:55 AM
    Amy

    First off you look AMAZING!
    Fabulous colors on you this morning…:))

    Your thoughts are so right on.. I call this the power of “believe”… such an empowering thought today.. BIG hug to you, you beautiful and sparkly light you :)))

    xo Amy

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 3:11 PM
    Oriana

    You sound so convincing and you radiate so much positive energy,, that I’ll definitely try the approach you recommend. Thank you :)

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 4:16 PM
    Michael

    just great to watch the clip. thanks you. and have a good day Martha :)

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 8:39 PM
    Beck

    So love it – the missing link to manifestation in my life at present! Thanks Martha :-)

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 10:58 PM
    Naomi

    Any suggestions on what to do if you’re not so clear on what you do want? I’ve had many a relationship that I could clearly feel “I don’t want this”, but imagining up the “perfect” situation (or near perfect enough), I find really hard….hard to know what that would be like. Does anyone have tips, or at least some connection with that problem??? :-)

    • October 21, 2013
      AT 1:41 PM
      Joanne

      When I have that problem, I just start writing down qualities that are important to me in a partner and you can just add to the list as thoughts arise and you begin to get clearer. If your afraid that you are forgetting something really important and therefore your new partner arrives missing this important factor

      • October 21, 2013
        AT 1:47 PM
        Joanne

        I always put at the top of the list “this or something better”

  • December 17, 2012
    AT 11:24 PM
    Barb

    How true…. worked right this moment with my own feeling state… Instead of “I need peace.. I want peace…”… try “I already have peace… there it is.”

  • December 18, 2012
    AT 7:05 PM
    Thelma

    Your advice is so good! It’s so freeing. Thank you!

  • April 18, 2013
    AT 12:44 AM
    leah guillory

    Wow. Great visualization. I mean you actually show us what to do! (instead of just telling us to feel that we are already loved – u show us how to feel that!) Thank u : ) <3

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 6:14 AM
    Boo

    Dear Martha,

    Thank you so very much for this visualisation technique, been kinda wondering why 8 years on.. why it’s been so arid when every other area of my being, I feel complete in.

    I will give this a “go” to hopefully, change my vibration and energy. Big hug.

    Happy Monday from the UK.

    Boo x

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 9:11 AM
    Coco

    “Get in the state of having it, & walk the world with that!”

    Another brilliant reminder from Master Yoda! Graspy Coco Crumbling Down… Yippee.

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 10:28 AM
    Nancy Darling

    Wonderful advice! Martha I see paintings on the wall behind you. Are you painting? I’m a painter ofanimals wildlife and endangered species. Cheers!
    Nancy

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 10:57 AM
    Vela Dunkin

    Thanks. I need a new job. A career that will be fulfilling and bring back the love for a job I once had. Not to mention financial prosperity! I’ve been rock bottom for a year broke unhappy at my job etc. I have imagined the career I want but it hasn’t worked. What do you suggest? What am I doing wrong? Your video is great. I’ve tried that but I must be doing something wrong. Thank you in advance for your reply to this message

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 11:08 AM
    Pamella

    Just what I needed to hear today.
    Thank You Martha

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 11:54 AM
    Charmagne Quarles

    Love this Martha! I have been doing this on and off and will do it more consciously now! I love the work you are doing in the world! You are a true blessing.

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 12:26 PM
    Joanne

    Hi Martha, I’m confused. Should I tell the truth (struggling, desperate) like the suggestions from the Oprah Video “The Truth Will Set You Free” or do I “fake it til ya make it” like this video suggests. I’ve tried both. I either feel like I’m eminating negative energy and keeping good fortune away or I’m the crazy lady who believes she’s rich and in a great relationship when she’s not ☺️Help. I’m a fan of yours and attended Omega Retreat years ago. I just stumbled across your website yesterday.

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 12:52 PM
    Ksenya

    Martha, you’re beautiful!

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 1:28 PM
    Dave Perkins

    I will take your advice and take it one step further, Im going to write down what I want and then meditate on it.

    Thanks for your advice.

    Dave Perkins Salt Lake City (and no I’m not) if you were wondering (smile)

  • October 21, 2013
    AT 1:51 PM
    Heather

    Is this the same as surrendering?

    • October 21, 2013
      AT 8:44 PM
      Joanne

      I believe it’s the same as surrendering but with a clear vision of what you want in your life. The more details that you “feel” the better, and just relax, knowing that it is coming. It’s that divine timing thing that gets me a little impatient or accepting less then you deserve and therefore, blocking what you really want and need.

  • October 22, 2013
    AT 6:15 AM
    Veronica

    Thanks for that. I’ve heard this said in many ways but you have said it and explained it in a way that is very understandable. When I put this thinking into practice it makes me feel better and then so too is my life and yet when I focus on the negative that too becomes more prominent – so thank you for reminding me of staying positively focussed.

  • October 22, 2013
    AT 8:45 PM
    Berky

    Yes!!! Yes it’s the power of being ready to receive it!
    I have been longing for a new home out in country soo badly
    And it keeps happening for my closest family members
    But this message (while I’ve heard this before) has truly settled into my mind. Thanks for the stronger siren . Love your work, Martha

  • March 13, 2014
    AT 9:30 AM
    Love and advice

    I want to work with (even though they very well could be). Same is true for the blustery overconfident.

  • November 10, 2015
    AT 11:50 PM
    Katie

    Martha, I am your biggest fan. I truly am. But I am afraid your advice for finding love does not work. At least it hasn´t worked for me.

    Recently, three desperate, crazily lonely and hopeless friends of mine have found true love – even though each of them was oozing desperation. Their need to find love was literally tattooed on their foreheads.

    But here am I – the spiritual, composed, meditating, deep and wise person, who has forgiven everybody, including myself, and made peace with my life and the Universe – still alone. I have written my lists and visualized my man, down to the smallest detail and to the point I can literally see him. I spend time with him everyday, talking, sharing, reflecting. I know I am totally worthy of love and I am lovable and I am open to love and I am ready to show my vulnerability and I have managed to let go of the need to find him so that this longing and desire visit me only temporarily.

    But he still hasn´t manifested in the “real” life.

    I know I probably haven’t been able to get my vibrations sorted out but why are my desperate friends manifesting when I am not?

    There must be something else behind the mystery of finding love. Why is it so hard for some?

    I know my problem is that I havent been able to let go of my ex because I still love him. I have done everything to let go of him but in vain.

    Could you please address this Martha.

    Thank you, for everything,

    -kati

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