When I was young—long before the invention of things like soup or buttons—I wrote a book called Finding Your Own North Star. In it, I described four “compasses,” metaphorical internal guidance systems that I believe come standard with every human life. If we learn to read these compasses, I said (and still say), we can get highly accurate instructions about how to build the lives we’re meant to have.
In case you’ve never encountered this concept, the four “compasses” are:
The body compass. Our bodies tighten and contract when we move away from our own best interests, and relax and lean [...]









