What if we stopped listening to the controlling voice of the culture around us, and instead learned to reconnect with our own true nature?
Sometimes we aren’t even sure why we feel so bewildered… and discontented… and even downright miserable. Often it’s because we have let the forces of society replace our own instinctive knowledge of what is right for us.
Now, it’s time for us to find that voice again—before it’s too late.
For Martha and Rowan, Job One is to live according to our deepest truths, making the commitment to feeling good even when it means looking weird. We believe that this is how we will reinvent our world—from the inside out— to create a society that’s kinder, more equitable, and more ecologically sustainable than the one we see around us right now.
This is the vision that we laugh and stumble and chat and feel our way towards here on this podcast. Did we mention LAUGH? We want no part of personal and global transformation if it isn’t fun!
So if you struggle to find a place where people who are as idealistic and brokenhearted, as silly and deeply sincere, as bewildered as you are—you might have just arrived.
Welcome!
How do you continue doing ordinary human-life things while the world feels like it’s collapsing in real time?
That’s what we’re trying to figure out on this episode of Bewildered. We talk about ping‑ponging between school runs, summer camp registration, [...]
How are you weathering the season you’re in?
In this episode of Bewildered, we talk about what it really means to surrender to the season, whether it’s an upstate New York winter, perimenopause, a busy parenting era, or the “my [...]
Have you ever felt something was “off” about a situation or person…but then ignored that instinct to please others? In this episode, we explore how culture teaches us to override our body’s internal signals in order to stay socially [...]
What happens once you authorize your knowing?
On this Bewildered, we pick up where we left off about authorizing our essential, deep knowing and explore the question: What happens next?
We talk about what it means to stop living by the [...]
Ever feel like the world is telling you what to think, do, or believe—until you’re not even sure what you know anymore?
In this episode of Bewildered, we’re talking about “authorizing your own knowing”—a concept we picked up from the [...]
What if the person you say you want to be… isn’t really who you want to be at all?
In this episode of Bewildered, we talk about what it means to follow culture instead of joy, and how it all [...]
Do you suffer from “resting misery face”? Many of us do, and in this episode of Bewildered, we’re diving into exactly why that is.
A few hints: It has to do with the brain’s “default mode network,” our hardwired negativity [...]
Have you ever been willing to “give up anything” for something you wanted? On this episode of Bewildered, we’re talking about the spiritual lesson that to be truly open to receiving something new, we first have to put something [...]
Does your life ever feel like a game of Tetris, where you get totally overwhelmed by all the pieces coming at you?
In this episode of Bewildered, we’re talking about how to get through the chaos that is modern life: [...]
Are you looking for ways to handle life when the culture’s rules no longer apply, and everything keeps changing at warp speed? In this episode of Bewildered, we’re talking about “flying blind” with confidence—trusting your body’s wisdom, adapting to [...]
We all need to take things in to keep us hydrated, not just physically, but also creatively. In this episode of Bewildered, we discuss what we call “filling the well”—receiving great art, stories, and creativity from others—and how it [...]
We’re in the middle of moving house (and Ro’s turning 45!) so our whole daily rhythm is being shaken up. But disruptions can be a great opportunity to consciously redesign your life. In this episode of Bewildered, we explore [...]
What does a text about chickens have to do with the meaning of life? We’re glad you asked! In this episode of Bewildered, we examine how our culture teaches us to avoid touch, fear time, and forego relationships for [...]
Our culture believes that the only way to fix all the bad stuff in the world is to stare at it relentlessly, as if our sheer focus could solve things. (Or at least prove we’re not part of the [...]
Do you find it difficult to share your unique offerings with the world? How about charging money for your work?
In this “Best of” episode of Bewildered, we dive into a question from listener Rebecca who’s trying to find the [...]
“QUICK! DO THIS NOW! IT’S URGENT!”
Do those words spike your pulse? We’re constantly pressured to do things that serve the system, and we’re trained to think of these things as urgent. But are they?
In this “Best of” episode of [...]
In our culture we’re socialized to believe that if we suffer enough, we’ll be rewarded later—and our reward will be happiness. In other words, happiness is something we have to earn through suffering.
On this “Best of” episode of Bewildered, [...]
Ever suffer from burnout? We certainly have, and we’re talking all about it on this “Best of” episode of Bewildered!
Burnout is something our culture doesn’t allow because it expects us to be productive non-stop. However, our wild natures require [...]
“Should I stay, or should I go?”
It’s an age-old dilemma, and we’re exploring it in this “Best of” episode of Bewildered!
To figure out when to stay or leave, we must first examine our thoughts. Often our struggles come from [...]
One way to deal with the constant, terrifying changes in all of our lives is to choose the worldview of a pilgrim—someone who doesn’t see life as a series of fixed positions but as a continuous, fluid process or [...]
